Written By: Gary Wonning
The Greatest Freedom Is When You Don’t Care What Anyone Thinks Of You
Many times we spend worthless hours worrying and thinking about if people like us or approve of what we are doing.
This is wasted time, not only can we not control what others think of us, there is absolutely nothing we can do about it. We are not in charge of what others think, and regardless of what we do or how we act, many will still think unkind thoughts about us, and think we have an ulterior motive, regardless of the deeds we perform.
There is an old saying, “A good deed never goes unpunished.”
This is so true. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t do the good deed, we do it for our own satisfaction and knowing we did the best we good to do the right thing, regardless of what others will perceive it to be.
Thinking those thoughts will raise our own attitude and by not looking for an external reward we won’t be disappointed if the recognition doesn’t come.
If someone appreciates it, that is just icing on the cake, it is never about public recognition.
Once we begin to realize this, our personal self-esteem escalates and we begin to realize how free we are from the thoughts of others, that is the true definition of freedom.
His travels have taken him to most of the United States, as well as Australia, Belize, Egypt and the Canary Islands.
He has studied the Mayan culture of Central America as well as the aborigines of Australia. Photography has given him the opportunity to observe life in various parts of the world.
He has published several books about his adventures.
For more information, please consult his website,www.journeysthrulife.com.
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