Written by Gary Wonning
Many times people tell us we should forgive someone regardless of what transgression they have committed. It is the Godly thing to do.
Regardless of how much someone has damaged our reputation, livelihood, or good will we need to forgive them and go on with life.
But what does this mean? Should we just go on as if nothing has happened, turning the other cheek and accepting their behavior regardless of how it may harm someone else or our selves?
How many times do we turn the other cheek?
In each and every one of our lives, we all have someone who has done a great deal of harm to our individual lives. How do we deal with this?
These souls come into our lives so we may learn lessons and better understand not only our selves, but others as well. When do we say enough is enough, thereby releasing ourselves from them so we might both go on with life?
Many people will never change, they will always be who they are. That is their decision, they will continue to suffer the consequences of their actions as long as their behavior doesn’t change.
Sometimes people do change, they see the error of their ways and begin to lead a new and better life.
Regardless if they change or not, there comes a time when we need to forgive them and move on. That doesn’t mean we forget. There is a difference. Forgiving means we realize they are human and make mistakes, we can love and accept the person for who he or she is, but we don’t have to condone their actions and spend time with them.
They can go their way and we can go ours. No harm, no foul.
You fool me once, it’s your fault, you fool me twice, it’s my fault.
Forgiving means to release and go on, it doesn’t mean we should spend more time with them if we choose not to. That is our choice.
Gary has been a writer/ photographer for over 20 years, specializing in nature, landscapes and studying native cultures. Besides visiting most of the United States, he has traveled to such places as Egypt, the Canary Islands, much of the Caribbean. He has studied the Mayan Cultures in Central America and the Australian Aboriginal way of life.Photography has given him the opportunity to observe life in many different parts of the world!
He has published several books about the various cultures he has observed.
For more information and a link to his hardcover and Ebooks, and contact information: please check his website, http://www.journeysthrulife.com.
Your comments appreciated
There is an extreme shortage of common sense in today’s world, I often think back to what my parents and grandparents believed and said, at the time I thought they were totally out of their mind and ignored it. I now wish I would have listened and followed their advice more often.
It is in this light I have decided to publish some of my random thoughts based on the views of our ancestors.