Self Esteem, Feeling Valued

Like attracts Like

We all, at different times have a challenge with feelings of inadequacy. It is only human to at times feel as though the whole world is picking on us and that what we say or do has no meaning or value. These feelings are only a natural part of life. Often times they are  brought on in times of extreme stress or periods of self doubt. After self exploration and an inner search for the God within, the feelings disappear and we return to our normal state of mind in which we realize that our thoughts and actions are important in the general scheme of things.

Feeling valued is very important, if every one felt their life had value and meant something, violence, crime and all the other negative aspects of life on earth would be practically non-existent. Feeling valued as an individual is all about the person who feels neglected rather than any one else. You can’t blame these feelings on some one else. As with all other situations in life , we attract to us the people and events that solidify our own thoughts and feelings. When feeling thoughts of inadequacy, we only attract what will reinforce those feelings. We become a giant magnet that draws from the universe every thing that will give us what we want.

It is an unwritten law of the universe, “Like attracts Like”. While there is some truth in the axiom “Opposites attract”, the main force in life besides love is the attraction of like . Even love is influenced by this, You cannot love someone or something if on some level you don’t like them or it.

if there is one thing I’ve become aware of in this life is that thoughts create reality, and even though I believe some events in life are predestined, it is our thoughts in life that create our reality.  Even our so called pre-destiny has a root in our preexistence when certain thoughts were entertained and these thoughts in turn created our future life.

Even the events we may have agreed to in our preexistence  were created for a reason and often times the so called negative aspects of our life turn out to be some of the best experiences we could ever imagine.Just like the opening phrase in the bible, ” In the beginning was the word, and the word was God” so the thoughts and words we utter create our individual world as we know it. Make the best of life and learn from it.

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The author has been a writer/photographer for over thirty years. Specializing in nature and landscape photography, as well as studying native cultures.

His travels have taken him to most of the United States, as well as Australia, Belize, Egypt and the Canary Islands.

He has studied the Mayan culture of Central America as well as the aborigines of Australia. Photography has given him the opportunity to observe life in various parts of the world.

He has published several books about his adventures.

For more information, please consult his website,

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  1. I would like to thank you for the efforts you have made in writing this post. I am hoping the same best work from you in the future as well. In fact your creative writing abilities has inspired me to start my own blog now. soin.


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